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How to Express Condolences

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How to Express Condolences

Recently, my mother, Ellen died. She lived a very good life. She raised three daughters. She loved art, writing, and travel.

I miss my mom. So, for this week's Everyday Grammar, I want to share how we can express sympathies, or condolences, when someone experienced1 the death of their loved one.

In American custom, we want to say that we care. We try to bring them comfort in their time of grief2 and sadness. We want to be gentle, considerate, and respectful3 while expressing sympathy.

But how do we do this in American English?

Showing our support

When someone dies, we usually use the phrasal verb pass away. This phrase combines the verb pass with the adverb away. We use this expression to talk about death in a more gentle and respectful way.

When we want to show our sympathy or understanding for the loss of someone, we can use these simple expressions:

I am sorry for your loss.

I was heartbroken by this sad news.

To be heartbroken means that we feel sad or hopeless, almost like our heart hurts when something bad happens. This sentence is in the passive4 voice. But we can change the sentence into the active voice by saying:

This sad news breaks my heart.

We also use these shorter expressions to describe our sadness:

My heartfelt condolences.

My deepest sympathies.

And we can add verbs and subjects to turn the expressions into complete sentences such as:

Please accept my heartfelt condolences (or my deepest sympathies) for your (or your family's) loss.

Here, we turn the expression into a respectful command by using the phrase please accept.

Missing5 someone

To miss someone means that you feel sad and wish that they were still with you.

We use this verb when they are still alive, but we might not be able to see them as often as we would like. But we also use this verb to say that we miss someone if they have passed away:

He/She/They will be missed.

This sentence is in the passive voice and the future tense. In order to show that we currently6 miss someone, we can use the active voice saying:

I miss her a lot.

She misses her dad every day.

Sometimes, we share happy thoughts about someone who has passed away. For example:

I will never forget when she danced in Rio de Janeiro to her favorite songs.

They will never forget what he did for them.

When there are no words

Sometimes the feeling of loss is so great, that we do not always know what to say. For those times, we do have expressions that we can use, such as:

I am so sorry, but I am at a loss for words.

Words cannot express my sadness for your loss.

Words cannot express my deepest sympathies.

Closing thoughts

In today's report, we learned7 some ways to express our condolences and sympathies to those experiencing the loss of a loved one.

We learned short expressions to share such as my heartfelt condolences and my deepest sympathies. We talked about ways to express how we miss someone. We even looked at a few expressions that we can share when we feel that there are no words to describe the feeling of loss.

I would like to close this report by thanking our readers and listeners over the past few weeks. Writing to us or leaving a comment has really meant a lot to me over the past month. I appreciate it so much!

Words in This Story

condolence – n. a feeling or expression of sympathy and sadness especially when someone is suffering because of the death of a family member, a friend, etc.

comfort –n. a state of feeling less worried or upset after a time of trouble or pain

grief – n. deep sadness, especially at the death of someone

phrase – n. a group of two or more words that express a single idea but do not usually form a complete sentence

passive voice – n. a way of writing or speaking that uses passive verbs where the subject receives the action of a verb.

active voice – n. a way of writing of speaking that uses active verbs where the subject performs the action of the verb.

appreciate – v. to enjoy and recognize the full worth of something


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1 experienced ntPz2t     
adj.有经验的;经验丰富的,熟练的
参考例句:
  • Experienced seamen will advise you about sailing in this weather.有经验的海员会告诉你在这种天气下的航行情况。
  • Perhaps you and I had better change over;you are more experienced.也许我们的工作还是对换一下好,你比我更有经验。
2 grief DfHxP     
n.悲伤,悲痛,悲伤的事,悲痛的缘由
参考例句:
  • Don't allow yourself to sink into grief,it can do no good.不要使自己陷入悲哀之中,这样一点好处也没有。
  • After her mother died,she abandoned herself to grief.母亲死后,她沉浸于悲痛之中。
3 respectful AWNxb     
adj.恭敬的,对...表示尊敬的
参考例句:
  • He is respectful to his elders.他对长辈很尊敬。
  • She received guests with a respectful attitude.她恭恭敬敬地接待了客人。
4 passive qLRxb     
adj.被动的;消极的
参考例句:
  • He has a passive expression on his face.他脸上有一种漠然的表情。
  • It lands the manager in a passive position.它使经理处于被动地位。
5 missing 3nTzx7     
adj.遗失的,缺少的,失踪的
参考例句:
  • Check the tools and see if anything is missing.检点一下工具,看有无丢失。
  • All the others are here;he's the only one missing.别人都来了,就短他一个。
6 currently SvMzI2     
adv.通常地,普遍地,当前
参考例句:
  • Currently it is not possible to reconcile this conflicting evidence.当前还未有可能去解释这一矛盾的例证。
  • Our contracts are currently under review.我们的合同正在复查。
7 learned m1oxn     
adj.有学问的,博学的;learn的过去式和过去分词
参考例句:
  • He went into a rage when he learned about it.他听到这事后勃然大怒。
  • In this little village,he passed for a learned man.在这个小村子里,他被视为有学问的人。

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