How Do I Continue a Conversation in English?

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This week, we answer a question from a VOA listener¹ who writes:

Question:

I work with some native² speakers of English. I want to practice speaking with them so I improve my English. But sometimes, I get nervous, so our conversation ends quickly. How can I talk with these friends for a longer time?

– VOA fan³

Answer:

Dear VOA fan,

You are right. It is not always easy to keep a conversation going in English. You might not be sure about what to say. Or maybe you are afraid that your pronunciation is not good.

Listen and follow up

First, remember the importance⁴ of listening. Listen to the other person carefully, so that you can ask a follow-up question. For example, let's say the other person tells you, "I just got back from a trip to Canada."

You can follow up with a question using Who, What, Where, When, Why, or How:

Where did you go in Canada?

What was your favorite place there?

How was the food there?

Avoid⁵ simple ‘yes' or ‘no' questions

If you want to keep a conversation going, it's a good idea to ask questions that cannot be answered with a simple ‘yes' or ‘no.'

If the other person asks you a ‘yes' or ‘no' question, try to give a longer answer to help keep the conversation going.

For example, a friend might ask, "Hey, have you seen the new Star Wars⁶ movie?"

You could just answer, "No, I haven't." Or, you could say more.

You could answer: "No, but I plan to see it soon. How about you?"

Be brave and practice often

Do not worry about your pronunciation. If your pronunciation is a little different, the other person will still understand your message if you try speaking slowly and clearly. When you are traveling in an English-speaking country and have some free time, be brave and speak in English with someone who does not look too busy. You may make a new friend.

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Words in This Story

conversation - n. an informal⁸ talk involving⁹ two people or a small group of people or the act of talking in an informal way

nervous – adj. having or showing feelings of being¹⁰ worried and afraid about what might happen

pronunciation – n. a particular person's way of pronouncing a word or the words of a language