英语散文：Relationship that Lasts

　　I don't think there's any reason not to. We are ready to believe such commitment at the moment, whatever change may happen afterwards. As for the belief in an everlasting¹ love, that's another thing.

　　Then you may be asked whether there is such a thing as an everlasting love. I'd answer I believe in it. But an everlasting love is not immutable（不变的）.

　　You may unswervingly love or be loved by a person. But love will change its composition with the passage of time. It will not remain the same. In the course of your growth and as a result of your increased experience, love will become something different to you.

　　In the beginning you believed a fervent³ love for a person could last indefinitely. By and by, however, "fervent" gave way to "prosaic（平凡的）" . Precisely⁴ because of this change it became possible for love to last. then what was meant by an everlasting love would eventually end up in a sort of interdependence.

　　We used to insist on the difference between love and liking⁵. The former seemed much more beautiful than the latter. One day, however, it turns out there's really no need to make such difference. Liking is actually a sort of love. By the same token, the everlasting interdependence is actually an everlasting love.

　　I wish I could believe there was somebody who would love me for ever. That's, as we all know, too romantic to be true. Instead, it will more often than not be a case of lasting² relationship.

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