【英语时差8，16】对未婚妻的前男友无法释怀

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I am 20 years old and engaged to the girl of my dreams. "Liza" is beautiful, smart and very loving. We have no problems in our relationship.

Before she dated me, Liza dated one of my best friends. In fact, I once witnessed them making out at a party. The problem is, every time we become intimate¹, that image plays in my head. I know what happened before we dated is not really my business, but I feel I should let her know what is bothering me.

I know Liza would never cheat on me, but how do I tell her something she did in her past is affecting me every time we make love? － Troubled in TexasDear Texas:

This isn't really Liza's problem－it's yours. She cannot do anything about the images in your head. It's up to you to replace those troublesome pictures with something else. Whenever you start to remember Liza kissing your friend, make a conscious decision to envision something more pleasing－perhaps substitute² your face for his.

If you do this each time, it will get easier and, unless you deliberately³ bring up the old images, they will fade away. If you cannot do this, you may be on your way to a total obsession⁴ with thoughts that will eventually destroy your relationship.

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