【英语时差8,16】如何跟大嘴巴的朋友打交道

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Dear Annie: When I was in college, I was good friends with "Carrie." When Carrie met my boyfriend, she was rather intoxicated¹ and said some hurtful things about him. Carrie went on and on about how she couldn't believe I would date a frat boy, that I was better than that, etc. Carrie apologized the next day. I married the boyfriend and still keep in touch with Carrie. But even after two years, I cannot shake what she said. I know her well enough to realize that while she was sorry, she meant every word. Carrie has asked to visit a couple of times, and I keep making excuses because it would be uncomfortable. I know her loose tongue was a result of the drinking and she did apologize, but I can't forget the incident. What should I say when she tells me she'd like to come and stay with us? — Confused Since College Dear Confused: Even if Carrie meant those words at the time, it doesn't mean she still feels that way. Before inviting² Carrie to visit, have a frank³ discussion⁴. Tell her you are still bothered by those comments about your husband and, because you value the friendship so highly⁵, would like to clear the air. See what she says before checking her off your guest list.