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• 1.吃不胖的零食-鱼类食品(1)
• 吃不胖的零食 Think fishy. 鱼类食品 The first recommendation might come as asurprise, as Ms Zhou encourages eating fish as a snack. If you are looking ...
• 2.巧妙拒绝别人-使用非防卫性语言,但一定要表述清楚(10)
• 巧妙拒绝别人 Make sure your words are non-defensive but clearly stated 使用非防卫性语言，但一定要表述清楚 No one wins when a requestor reads your soft...
• 3.巧妙拒绝别人-推迟到更合适的时间做出决定(9)
• 巧妙拒绝别人 Defer the decision to a better environment 推迟到更合适的时间做出决定 Ask for the opportunity to discuss the request when you can give th...
• 4.巧妙拒绝别人-用积极的理由来解释拒绝的原因 (8)
• 巧妙拒绝别人 Sandwich your no between two positives 用积极的理由来解释拒绝的原因 Make your answer more palatable with a positive explanation. For exam...
• 5.巧妙拒绝别人-对事不对人(7)
• 巧妙拒绝别人 Say yes to the person and no to the task 对事不对人 Make sure the requestor understands first how positively you feel about them, despite...
• 6.巧妙拒绝别人-在拒绝之前解释自己的苦衷(6)
• 巧妙拒绝别人 Explain your constraints before saying no 在拒绝之前解释自己的苦衷 Rejection without giving context implies an unreasonable request or a ...
• 7.巧妙拒绝别人-探索互惠互利的可能性(5)
• 巧妙拒绝别人 Explore the possibility of a reciprocal favor 探索互惠互利的可能性 This will help the requester understand the impact of the request, and...
• 8.巧妙拒绝别人-向值得信任的同事说出两种选择的利弊(4)
• 巧妙拒绝别人 Voice both the pros and cons to a trusted cohort 向值得信任的同事说出两种选择的利弊 Speaking the considerations out loud will help you ma...
• 9.巧妙拒绝别人-相信你的第一直觉(3)
• 巧妙拒绝别人 Give credence to your initial instinct 相信你的第一直觉 Recognize that your brain and your body often register information that is more a...
• 10.巧妙拒绝别人-先查看日程表,再给明确答复(2)
• 巧妙拒绝别人 Ask for time to check your calendar 先查看日程表，再给明确答复 It's an acceptable business practice to review your schedule or converse w...