看重爱侣外表会让降低恋爱快感

　　最新研究表明，过度关注伴侣的外表会让人们从爱情中收获的快感降低。

　　Partner-objectification, where that focus is placed on a partner's physical qualities over everything else, hasn't been studied in the context¹ of romantic relationships。

　　此前，人们从未研究过伴侣客观化(即关注伴侣外表胜于一切)对爱情的影响。

　　Eileen Zurbriggen of the University of California polled² 159 sophomores³. The students were asked to fill out a survey on their romantic relationships, their media consumption⁴ and their feelings of objectification。

　　如今加州大学的艾琳对159名大二年级学生进行了问卷调查。学生们需在问卷上填写他们的恋爱状况、媒体消费状况以及对客观化的感觉。

　　Objectification was measured by how strongly the students agreed or disagreed with statements such as: "I rarely think about how I/my partner looks" and "I often worry about whether the clothes I'm/my partner is wearing make me/them look good." The men showed higher levels of partner-objectification than the women。

　　所谓客观化的测量，就是学生对于一些问题表示同意或者不同意等态度，诸如：“我很少琢磨自己/伴侣长得怎么样”以及“我常常注意我/伴侣的衣服是不是有型。”测试结果中，男士的伴侣客观化水平高于女士。

　　Eileen found partner-objectification lowered relationship satisfaction, as well as men's sexual⁵ satisfaction. This could be because concentrating on your partner's attractiveness tends to make you less concerned with your partner as a whole, leading to a less satisfying relationship and decreased intimacy⁶, she said。

　　艾琳发现，伴侣客观化降低了关系满意度，以及男性的性满意程度。艾琳称，这大概因为对外表的关注容易让人忽略对方的其他方面，导致关系满意度降低，亲密度下降。

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