豆知识 2011-09-18&09-24 求爱被拒怎么办？

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In this clip¹ we’ll talk about how to deal with rejection². And the first thing you do is not look at it like rejection. If he's not interested in you or she's not interested in you, then they’re not good enough for you. You want somebody who truly gets you, and appreciates you, and values you. So if they didn't, you don't want them anyway. So it's all about perception³, nobody can reject you if you didn't want them in the first place. So, yeah, maybe you were attracted to them, maybe you thought that they were interesting, but trust me, somebody else will be interesting to you too. And they're only going to be good for you if they're really interested in you as well. So, don't take it personally, move on to the next person who knows what that person has going on with them. You're terrific⁴ and that's all you need to know. It's all about perception and how you choose to look at it. I know it can be a hard pill to swallow if you really like somebody, but trust me, if they don't like you, they’re not good enough for you. You should move on to somebody who does. 

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